These are lofty goals when facing such a difficult change in life, but they are goals worth doing!
If any of those goals are important to you then please consider Collaborative Divorce as your method to disolve the marriage. It's okay if it's time to move on, but you want to be able to look back and say with confidence "I did that difficult transition in my life with pure grace".
Mental health professionals can help you throughout litigated divorce and mediation as well as Collaboration! Having a support person, a communication coach, and someone to help you strategize can make the difference in meeting the above goals for integrity, grace, and your children's well being.
Think about the results you are seeking before you start. How do you want to feel about your handleing of the process in hindsight, what do you want to others saying about how you handled things, and what would it look like for you to feel strong throughout such a difficult time.
We can help!